That's my philosophy. Well now,recently widowed at 66.now i must move on and enjoy this last phase in life I am an aries and true to that i am known for being blunt and impulsive,i have tamed the impulsiveness to a degree,just a simple average person no drama,respectful and a gentleman.but in the bedroom its the best time for me to use all my skills,especially oral.both receiving and giving.i guarantee you wont be disappointed.i was told injection is nice but your tongue is magic.and also have toys and vibrators to really enhance things.theres more but lets leave it at that.i am a chunky guy,please no fat shaming here.average size but can make up for that in other ways.and i can host if so or there are places nearby,and if anyone is local.i keep my mouth shut.discretion is always there. Travel partner with no strings attached; lets please each other. I prefer someone local to San Diego County, but willing to drive a little for the right person.